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In Chapter 2 of So Great Salvation by Charles Ryrie, I don’t have much to disagree with. In fact, I wish that many on the no-lordship side would heed his words and give careful thought to the way they present the gospel. For Jesus says in Matthew 12:36-37,
“I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”
And James tells us that “If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.” Proverbs tells us that ”death and life are in the power of the tongue” and Ecclesiastes tells us to “be not rash with your mouth, nor let your heart be hasty to utter a word before God,” for it is better to listen than to offer a sacrifice of fools, who do not know that they do evil. Proverbs chapter 10 tells us that:
When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent. The tongue of the righteous is choice silver; the heart of the wicked is of little worth.
and that
The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, but the perverse tongue will be cut off. The lips of the righteous know what is acceptable, but the mouth of the wicked, what is perverse.
At the end of Job, God tells Eliphaz the Temanite, one of Job’s friends, that “My anger burns against you and against your two friends, for you have not spoken of me what is right, as my servant Job has.” I think you get the picture – our words should be carefully chosen, as well wise and speaking rightly of God. Our words should be like “choice silver.”
And yet, many people are lazy or sloppy. They are unconcerned about their language or try to justify their lack of clarity or precision. Ryrie comments on this, saying:
How often I have heard the retort, “It’s only a matter of semantics.” In my experience it usually came from students using it as a defense mechanism to justify a poor answer to a question. And usually the question involved defining or explaining carefully the meaning of a biblical doctrine or concept. “A matter of semantics” was supposed to excuse fuzzy thinking and a poor, if not wrong, choice of words.
Indeed, he goes on to talk about clarity in evangelism:
Some give a wrong message; others, an unclear one. But we must strive to use the words that give a clear witness to the grace of God. It is not that God cannot use an unclear message; doubtless He does this more often than He would prefer to. But why should He have to? Why don’t we sharpen our understanding of what the Gospel is about so that we can present it as clearly as possible, using the right words to herald the Good News correctly?
And so it is that I would like to address some very common problems I see in gospel presentations.
Accept Jesus
I am always a bit vexed when I hear someone tell a lost person to “accept Jesus” or “accept Christ.” Colossians 2:6 does say that “as you received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in him.” So what’s the big deal? Don’t receive and accept mean the same thing? While accept can mean “to receive willingly,” it can also mean ”to give admittance or approval to.” Even in the first definition, the connotation is different from receive. I can say that I received a gift and it is clear that a gift was given and I now posses the gift. But, if I say that I accepted a gift, it comes with the idea of my approval in the interaction; that I thought highly enough of either the gift or the giver to take it.
At this point, you may still ask: so what? Aren’t you nitpicking? I don’t think so. Certainly, I would want to convey that I think highly of both the giver and the gift! However, along with this idea is that if the gift did not meet my standards, I could have shunned it and turned it down. Now, of course many people snub their noses and Christ and the gospel all the time. But should we use this language that puts Christ in position to be judged by the person? Is it in reality us who are to be judged by Christ? Are we not in need of his acceptance?
Our choices of words often shape how our message comes across. In person-to-person interaction, there are obvious things that affect our communicated meaning, such as our tone of voice. But the words we use set the tone as well. And so I propose we stop subtly telling the non-believer that their decision sits on high, and that Christ is in need of their approval. Instead, let us use our words to place them before Christ as he is on his throne and show them the dreadful picture of his judgement, along with his splendor and majesty!
Ask Jesus into your heart
This one is incredible. Nowhere in the Bible is this even remotely put forth as a presentation of the gospel. Where does this come from? What passage do people cite to justify this? Revelation 3:20
Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.
Supposedly Jesus stands and knocks at the door of unbeliver’s hearts (or perhaps the door is the heart), and pleas that you let him in. Is this how Scripture portrays Jesus, as weak and helpless against the hard hearts of unbelievers? No. It seems that he is painting a different picture, such as portrayed in Luke 12:35-37 and perhaps even alluding to that parable.
In Luke 12:35-37, Jesus tells the disciples:
Stay dressed for actionand keep your lamps burning, and be like men who are waiting for their master to come home from the wedding feast, so that they may open the door to him at once when he comes and knocks. Blessed are those servants whom the master finds awake when he comes. Truly, I say to you, he will dress himself for service and have them recline at table, and he will come and serve them.
Jesus is describing himself as a master returning from the wedding feast to his servants. A master needs no invitation into his own home. And Christ’s servants know his voice and come when he calls (John 10:3,4). You do not want to be like the servant who was caught unaware and in disobedience, who Christ “will cut him in pieces and put him with the unfaithful!” Notice that his coming isn’t that of someone being converted by recieving Christ, but of faithful servants awaiting their master’s return and the others being punished.
This makes much more sense than him warning the Laodicean church, saying, “I will spit you out of my mouth,” telling them to “be zealous and repent,” all before letting them know he is just waiting for an invitation into their hearts! No, Christ had all authority to be in the Laodicean Church (which is the context of Revelation 3:14-22) and his servants are to stand ready for when they hear his voice.
Now, consider something further. If Revelation 3:20 is about being saved by “asking Jesus into your heart”, why is it placed in th letter as it is? Why is there – according to you – a gospel call in the middle of his describing “those whom I love” and “the one who conquers?” Why would it follow: “Those whom I love, I reprove and discipline, so be zealous and repent?”
God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life
This may be one of the worst evangelistic lines I know about. First of all, it is usually used to bypass dealing with the real issues of sin, guilt, wrath, etc. Secondly, the unregenerate mind isn’t likely going to understand this line in any biblical manner. After all, why wouldn’t God love them; they love themselves, why shouldn’t God? He has a wonderful plan for their life? Good! They have a wonderful plan for their life!
But, some lost people will get upset when they hear this. And I’m inclined to sympathize with them. He has a wonderful plan for my life? What about starving kids in Africa? What about rape victims? This line paints God as planning a life of ease for you. Most people – and certainly lost people – don’t think of a “wonderful plan” in terms of the fulfillment of God’s purposes, specifically by him redeeming a people for himself to his praise and glory. But what is worse is that many of the people who are giving people this line don’t mean it in the right sense either! Yes, it is true that everything is made for the Lord’s purpose. But wrapped up in that is that he made “the wicked for the day of trouble.”
And while I sympathize with the non-believers who ridicule this message, it isn’t because I think that God is evil or that the problem of evil is a valid critique of Christian theism. What I hate is the false ideal that is presented in this message. Did God have a wonderful plan for Pharaoh? I do think that God’s plan is wonderful, but when you add “for your life” to the mix it gives the impression that the person in question is going to like and enjoy it. But that person could be raised up for destruction, or perhaps they become repentant and are tortuously killed as a martyr. This isn’t what normally comes to mind when people hear the term “wonderful.”
Suppose you still insist that you can say “God has a wonderful plan for your life” because you don’t support the “health, wealth, and prosperity gospel” and you understand what is means. It seems to me that if someone understands that life is full of sorrows and that even the righteous are afflicted, but presents this line to the non-believer nonetheless then they are simply guilty of a bait-and-switch tactic. I’m glad we evangelize like used car salesmen.
Using a “Survey” to share the gospel
This isn’t so much a matter of word choice as a matter of approach, but I think this criticism is still worth bringing up in the spirit of presenting the gospel rightly. I have seen many people go out and use a questionnaire sheet. They approach the person and explain that they are taking a survey and ask if they can ask them a few questions. Yet I have never seen anyone using this method compile the data they recorded for analysis. In fact, some people don’t even write down the answers they receive! In short, they aren’t taking a survey, it’s a gimmick and misleading if not deceitful.
But sometimes – perhaps often – it is even worse than that. Sometimes it makes me almost wish it was a bait-and-switch… Some people will go through the “survey” and that is the extent of what they do. There isn’t much, if any, substantive or meaningful dialog or interaction.
Look, treat people like people. Everyone sins and is naturally in rebellion against God. Everyone needs to understand their depravity and need for the cross. They need Jesus. However, different people rebel in different ways and believe different lies. They have different misconceptions and will use different tactics to avoid being confronted with the person of Christ. Sticking to a formulaic list of questions isn’t going to address people’s needs.
I have similar qualms about using tracts. I am not anti-tract. However, I have seen people simply read tracts to people as the whole of their sharing the gospel. If the person can read and you’re giving them the tract, why read it to them? If you were going to discuss the tract or answer their questions it might make sense; though, I still don’t see why you wouldn’t put it in your own words. But just reading it to them and giving it to them seems somewhat laborious and insulting to me. Or it comes across as if you don’t know what you’re doing or talking about.
Let’s say that you don’t know what you are doing when it comes to evangelism. Should you adopt the survey or reading-them-a-tract method to become familiar and comfortable with evangelism? I don’t think so. Find a solid believer and talk with them about it. Go out and share the gospel with them. Role-play with them. Don’t neglect reading the Word, either! The Bible tells us to spread the gospel and does not do so without also being able to prepare us to for it. If you are having trouble even with that, feel free to contact me and I’ll see how I can help. You don’t have to resort to gimmicks or cookie-cutter scripts.
Preach the Gospel always, and if necessary, use words.
No! Wrong.
This is often attributed to Francis of Assisi. However, the actual source of this saying is unknown. Either way, this is a bad saying: use words! Nowhere in the Bible does it ever command or commend spreading the gospel without the use of words. In fact, when speaking about the gospel in his letter to the Romans, Paul writes:
How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to hear without someone preaching? And how are they to preach unless they are sent? As it is written, “How beautiful are the feet of those who preach the good news!” But they have not all obeyed the gospel. For Isaiah says, “Lord, who has believed what he has heard from us?” So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ. ((Romans 10:14-16))
The world was created by God through speaking, Christ is called the Word at the beginning of the Gospel of John. Jesus used words. Peter used words. Paul used words. John the Baptist used words. Look throughout the Bible and see how often the spreading of the gospel is connected with preaching. Use words!
The Bridge / Reconciliation model
If I haven’t already burned enough bridges in this post, this one is sure to make some people upset (which is not my goal, by the way). Before I dig into what I think is an issue here, let me be clear that I don’t have a problem per se with someone using the bridge illustration. So, Navigators can put down their torches and pitchforks (although, some of them might want to keep them handy!).
The Bridge illustration tells us that we are separated from God by sin and that Christ and the cross is how we can be reconciled to God. True enough. But what usually ends up happening in this presentation is that the nature of sin is downplayed, and the justice of God either isn’t mentioned or is made to look unfortunate instead of right and good (never-mind the wrath of God!).
Look, it isn’t that we have sinned and it’s unfortunate; that we simply can’t make it to God and somehow we are reconciled by Christ. This downplays that we are enemies of God and the recipients of his wrath. Don’t present the state of man as being merely distanced from God. It is closer to the way that North and South Korea are separated… by war. We are rebels and our rightful king is both angered and just.
Just also consider that people usually don’t fall under conviction when looking at this diagram. As far as I can tell, it isn’t even designed with that in mind. No, it presents mankind with a problem that is overcome by Christ, rather than showing us to be self-righteous and wicked.
One final note about the bridge: people often use it like they use tracts, avoiding actual conversation.
Conclusion
How we present the gospel is important. We need to represent Christ rightly. That doesn’t mean you need a PhD in English, but it may mean that you meditate on God’s word and are slow to speak. Don’t use cheap tricks, just talk with people.
Your ticket out of Hell, Part 1
Your ticket out of Hell, Part 2
Your ticket out of Hell, Part 3
Your ticket out of Hell, Part 4